Eating Crow, the art of apology

“I recently had the opportunity, responsibility and privilege of apologizing to a colleague.” “You mean you HAD to apologize to someone, right?” “Well, I didn’t HAVE to, I chose to take advantage of the opportunity to clear things up. It was my responsibility in that I contributed to the misunderstanding at least 50%. It was [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:43-04:00July 2nd, 2018|Character, Communication, Life|1 Comment

Rules – should you break ‘em?

I was recently in the home of friends who have a LARGE family. How large? Large enough to field almost any sports team from their ranks; large enough to be lovingly referred to as “the swarm”; large enough to make me – the youngest of two children – take notice of all the “activity”. Yet, [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:43-04:00May 15th, 2018|Character, Life|0 Comments

How to overcome reality distortion and blindspots

Years ago I was faced with a personal reality dilemma: an important life event was approaching. Expectations were high. Tensions were higher. There was something I was expected to do but couldn’t. The interpretation was that I wouldn’t. Afterwards, there was plenty of hurt and ill feelings to go around. Later, my friend, colleague and [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:44-04:00February 24th, 2016|Life, Thinking Differently|0 Comments

Leaders Align

Some years ago I was returning from Montreal to Atlanta after a consulting project. The airplane had a scheduled stop in Boston. Prior to our landing the pilot informed the passengers of "terrible" crosswinds at Boston's Logan Airport and that we could expect a "bumpy" landing. Understatement on both points. We survived. This, only after [...]

By |2021-02-20T19:25:08-04:00August 11th, 2012|Competence, Leadership, Thinking Differently|0 Comments
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