Context matters

If you change the context, you change the meaning of something. For example, if you desire more clarity, add contrast. Contrast creates clarity. Watch the video. . In Other Words... One should use common words to say uncommon things. ― Arthur Schopenhauer The great enemy of clear language is insincerity. When there is a gap between one’s [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:44-04:00July 6th, 2015|Communication, Life, Thinking Differently|0 Comments

In praise of praise

One of the secrets to human performance is hidden in plain sight. That is, most don’t see it or they ignore it. The amazing part is that it’s free and it works. Here’s the secret: in a given role, people deliver their best performance when they feel valued and respected, no matter what the conditions. [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:45-04:00May 20th, 2015|Communication, Competence, Leadership, Life|3 Comments

So, what else have you got?

Of course I remember you! You were that wunderkind in your early work days who plowed through tasks and got things done at an amazing pace. As an individual producer, you stood out among your peers. While you were a little narcissistic we looked past that back then. You later learned how to see the [...]

By |2015-11-17T20:13:02-04:00April 16th, 2015|Competence, Life, Thinking Differently|1 Comment

Do you really know how to “think out of the box?” – Part 3, How can I escape the box?

The previous post, and the one before that, demonstrated that the unrealized act of self-deception is one of the largest factors undermining relationships, teamwork, and performance. Self-deception puts us in a box that blinds us to the true cause of problems and leads us to focus on symptoms. Therefore, most “solutions” actually make matters worse. [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:45-04:00April 2nd, 2015|Life, Thinking Differently|0 Comments

Do you really know how to “think out of the box?” – Part 2, How bad could it be?

In my last post we looked at how self-deception can put us “in a box” and literally keep us from “thinking outside the box.” When we betray ourselves we seek to justify ourselves. We tell ourselves a story in which the wrong we are doing appears right, or at least not our fault. As part [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:45-04:00March 26th, 2015|Life, Thinking Differently|2 Comments

Do you really know how to think “out of the box?” – Part 1

Most don’t. Oh, it's not because they’re not smart or that opportunities don’t abound. It’s not even because teachers, consultants and the like aren’t overflowing with lists, how-to’s, and tricks designed to “expand” our thinking beyond box boundaries. It’s because we’ve made the thing all about problem-solving or creativity and the like. The language has gotten [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:45-04:00March 23rd, 2015|Life, Thinking Differently|0 Comments

Your scary future, Part 6; flexing and all that jazz

V.U.C.A. world or not, we still have to make a difference. We still have to contribute. We still have to deliver value. And that means taking action and getting results. Yet, action unfolds and results often come about in stages. Clarity is often lacking, especially to the degree that allows us comfort and confidence. V.U.C.A. [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:46-04:00August 25th, 2014|Competence, Life, Strategy, Thinking Differently|1 Comment

Your scary future, Part 5; the necessity of a prepared mind

The future is about change; both dangerous discontinuity and positive permutation. The future is very complicated. The whole of it is greater than the sum of the parts – you can’t really understand it by simply looking at it’s individual parts. And, as American writer George Will said, “The future has a way of arriving [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:46-04:00August 19th, 2014|Competence, Life, Strategy, Thinking Differently|0 Comments

Your scary future, Part 4: the lady or the tiger?

How would you decide? “The Lady, or the Tiger?” begins with a description of a “semi-barbaric” king who rules his kingdom with a heavy hand. For punishing criminals, he has built an arena featuring two doors. The criminal must choose his own fate by selecting one of the two closed doors. Behind one door is [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:46-04:00July 23rd, 2014|Competence, Life, Thinking Differently|1 Comment

Your scary future, Part 3: sense and sensibility

Listen for a word: absolutely (and its kin: exactly, precisely, of course, no doubt, without question, totally, undoubtedly, clearly, utterly). How often do you hear it used in daily speech? Probably more than in the past. Why? People are longing for a sense of control in – a volatile, uncertain, complex and ambiguous world – [...]

By |2021-01-19T09:45:47-04:00July 15th, 2014|Competence, Life, Strategy, Thinking Differently|0 Comments
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